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Let me begin by saying that single-hood is not such a bad thing. I know, you are probably already judging me because you have seen your friends being showered with gifts and affection everyday and you are hungry for some love.
Do not be jealous. You have something even better that she will never have again!! THE GIFT OF BEING SINGLE. I call it a gift because, it doesn't last forever at least it shouldn't. God saw it from the beginning and that is why he made Eve for Adam.
Genesis 2:18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a help meet for him.1 Corinthians 11:9 Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.
That is a story for another day. Today my focus is on, why you should enjoy being single while it still lasts.
1. You have enough time to yourself
You may get some alone time when you have a significant other, but you know there will never be much of personal time. Once you begin dating, it suddenly becomes more of 'US' and less of 'You and I'.
2. You can do things randomly
I am not saying in a relationship there is no space for being spontaneous but you will need to sync schedules and calender's. The most important part is you need to be considerate.. That might pinch but it is a sign of love.
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3. You learn yourself
Every day you are single is a chance to learn something new about yourself. This is a time that you are likely to try out almost everything you have wished to do and it teaches you your abilities and limits. This is the point you are likely to pick up new habits and hobbies.
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4. You fall in love with yourself
If nobody is showering you with attention you are likely to overcompensate. Single-hood is the period where you discover how amazing you are and do nice things for yourself.
There is however, a hidden secret to this; the much effort you put on yourself, makes you attract the right spouse!!
There is however, a hidden secret to this; the much effort you put on yourself, makes you attract the right spouse!!
5.You realign your life
This is actually very funny. When you are single, this is the time that you make all your life goals and design a master plan. You have the best atmosphere to think critically about your life and put yourself first without offending someone.
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When you are in a relationship, you need to be quite fair by ensuring you and your partner are both advancing your goals. At times, it means working together and having common goals. Which is good but having your own goals and advancing them is also better.
There you go. Here is something new to focus on instead of being all lonely and sad. Being single is actually a blessing and if you enjoy it well then you increase your chances of attracting the perfect partner. Let the fun begin!!
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