Marriage is not a Bed of Roses Neither is it a Bed of Cactus
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Proverbs 14:1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.
Proverbs 18:22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD
These citations are purely to drive my point home. Women have been given power from above and there is no single verse in the Bible that says you should suffer in marriage or be exploited by your partner. If anything, the only thing associated with marriage is love. Last I checked, love and misery do not go together.
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As a woman, you are the pillar of your marriage. The man is the head of the family but you are the neck. If things are not working out, get to the bottom of things and get to your knees at all time. Nothing can hold a couple together more than prayer. Always keep in mind that marriage is not supposed to be miserable so work it out girl!
God did not promised a walk in the park neither did he condemn you to a life time of misery. Sometimes, you may need to walk away and that will not make you any less a woman. It is time you decide to look out for yourself, if life takes a toil on you then who will raise those kids you keep taking crap for their sake.
Here are the qualities of love,
1 Chorinthians 13: 4 - 8 : Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails; but if there are gifts of prophecy, they will be done away; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be done away.
If you ain't getting any of the above then there is no love. Be the bigger person and make a wise decision. Let me stop here for today, I could go on and there is a chance of me getting personal and I do not want that to happen.
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