Saturday 14 May 2022

Needs, Values and Relationship Dynamics by Victory Tali

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Let me start by committing illegibility suicide.

I'm not a relationship expert. In fact, this is one of the many areas of my life I can't seem to figure out yet (one of the many or one of all, to be accurate...). By the looks of things, I'm not even sure I'm close to it, and honestly, I don't even know if I ever will.

However, over the ups and downs on this road, I believe I have noted a few things that give me

Tuesday 1 March 2022

How to Understand and Manage Expectations in Relationships


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When it comes to relationships, you need to be honest with yourself. Everyone is looking for something which forms their expectations. The expectations form the basis of what you hope to get in a relationship or rather the fulfilment you hope to achieve.

When everyone is getting into a relationship, they have a checklist. For others this even this even determines who they date and how they build the relationship.

Friday 4 February 2022

What is Self-identity and Why Is It Important?

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Identity is about the question of who am I and who do I want to become? Self- identity is about how you identify and define yourself.

People identify themselves in different ways based on relationships, experiences, abilities, traits and physical attributes. Self- identity is a process and has multiple aspects. It is closely linked to self-awareness and self-esteem.

Thursday 27 January 2022

Understanding Toxic Relationships; Definition, Causes, Signs & Solutions

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A couple of weeks ago, a group of ladies invited me to speak to them about toxic relationships. At face value, their intention was to understand toxic intimate relationships but we started off by understanding the dynamics of toxic relationships.

Defining toxic relationship?

Toxic relationships happen in different contexts and as a result of diverse reasons.