5 Godly Characters To Look For In A Man

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When a man falls in Love with God, it makes a difference. When there is greatness on the horizon; the devil will always send ‘The counterfeit Man’. 

His witty methods are designed to block blessings of a great man. But when God has something amazing for you, it will go beyond your comprehension. 

You are wondering who the counterfeit man
is. This is any man who distracts delays, interrupts or totally obstructs God’s plan for the single woman’s life. God’s plan for the single woman’s future is often hindered when she becomes involved with ‘The Counterfeit Man’.

Character must take precedence over charisma. Anyone can be charismatic. Mr. Charisma spots you from across the way, is ridiculously attractive, says all the right things and is magnetic. You can’t put your finger on it but you know, you feel connected in some way. That does not mean he has the character to back up all the finesse and allure.                                    

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Ladies look for these characteristics in a great man when you enter a high potential dating relationship:

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      Committed – Say Yes to the man whose mind is already made up. 
He is the man you will be able to set your watch by. You can count on him to do his very best. His mind is made up; he’s all in and consulting God all the way. Say NO to the man who is ‘making up his mind’ about you, his life and living in general.

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    Protection – Physical protection is important; but it is given. Say YES to the man who will protect you with his words. He will be gentle and always address you with respect. He won’t put you down in public nor will he ridicule you behind closed doors. He will have your back even if that means he has to stand up to his friends, family or his Mama. This is the man who will be encouraging and supportive. He will make you feel provided for (financially, emotionally and mentally) and he will ‘MAKE IT WORK!’  All of it. 

Reliable – Don’t get it tangled with boring. Say    YES to Mr. Reliable. He is the man who will be    consistently dependable. He will have a   resilient character; and will also be a good judge of it. This man walks in wisdom and uses the Holy Spirit of discernment to lead and cover his family. 

You will count on him to make good decisions and right choices, even if you are not around to assist. You will trust in his reaction to certain situations and overall he will be reliable in how he lives and how he studies God’s word. One thing he won’t be is boring. 

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      Motivated – This man isn’t just sitting around waiting for someone to stir his pot. He’s already gassed up and ready to drive. He will be motivated to work and get things done and be the provider that he was called to be. It’s not about the fancy education, the latest pair of sneakers, those perfect set of pearly whites or the rippling abs that have helped him get by all this time. Ask yourself:  is he a hard-worker? When the tough times come, will he be so prideful that he won’t take menial jobs temporarily to make ends meet.

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        Mindful – Please say YES to the mindful man who thinks of you – always. You may not always like him, but you will always love him. You will value his mind and appreciate the way he thinks. His heart and intentions will be pure. He will consider that you are a light sleeper. He will think about how your daughter is scared of the dark and ensure that her nightlight will always shine. He will understand you live in the Kalahari Desert and stock extra food, water and kerosene lamp. This is the man who’s got those broad shoulders to carry you and his family.

Personally,  there are additional traits I would like in my husband: humorous, easy going and so on the list is endless. But when I consider my future vows, the solid foundation wins. The other desires held in my heart and his will be added to us as God promises in His word. A good man will reveal these characteristics over time. Character is like pregnancy it will always come out. Yes it will. Open your eyes beyond his wallet see his heart.  

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To the man of good character and pure heart say Yes! Choose him. Want him. Pick him. Love him. Don’t just love him because of; Love him in spite of, in spite of his flaws and insecurities, his past pains and failures along with all the mistakes he will make.

He won’t be perfect (knowing very well you aren’t an angel yourself) but this great man will have his priorities straight. He’ll have a heart after the Lord. He’ll love you not just the way he wants to be loved, but the way you need to be loved. 

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Don’t rush to settle (and please do not be too proud and arrogant to miss out on a good man) Wait for him. The right ‘Him.’ You will be blown away when God sends you his best.(HE WILL) 

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