Every
successful relationship is a reflection of the amount of work that the couple
has put in. There is nothing like,
"Things
will just work out".
You
either make an effort or your relationship will become a routine and you don't
want that.
1.
Take time every once in a while to make his favourite meal
It
may not be possible for you to make dinner every single day but over the
weekend you can surely make time to prepare a proper meal. The effort and
commitment will say it all. Then you can prove if what they say is true,
"The
way to a man's heart is through the stomach".
2.
Engage him in a conversation rather than a debate
After
a long day at work, everyone looks forward to some peaceful time at home. He
may not have done what you requested from him but when he comes home engage him
in small talk.
Assess
the mood and unleash your queries at a more appropriate time when you are
likely to get satisfactory answers.
You
can also check out this article, 5 Steps to Confront Him When He Comes Home
Drunk, in case he comes home drunk.
3.
Unplug
Technology
has encroached on our personal lives that our cellphones and other gadgets are
always with us. Get one weekend or evening to unplug and avoid technology.
Instead, pay attention to each other and have actually conversation without
being distracted by work emails, Facebook or whats-app.
4.
Pay attention and be on top of things
Men
want to be in charge and at the top of things at home. They look into the
future and want to give their family the best. What will make a man feel like a
king, is a woman who understands his plans and helps him out do himself.
If
you are attentive to what he is doing, you are likely to add some spice into it
which, will definitely challenge him. Deep inside, he will know that you
appreciate his efforts.
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5.
Forgive and forget
Women
are known to hold grudges for years and they are good at using your mistake
against you.
Nobody
is perfect and even those you love will hurt. The only way to be happy is to
forgive and forget. It may be hard to forget but holding a grudge is not simple
either.
Let
it go and you, together with your husband will be free.
Now
it is up to you to bring back the spark in your love.
PS. For the men, you are not off the hook. You to also need to
show affection to the ladies and I will giving you a few pointers in my next
article.
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Had to re -read ,, I now know she is in love, wait, she could be having self motivations..
ReplyDeleteA good one Tabitha
Thanks. Look out for the next article where I will share how you can say you love her without using words.
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