Thursday, 8 September 2016

5 Ways to Say 'You Love Him' Without Using Words


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Every successful relationship is a reflection of the amount of work that the couple has put in. There is nothing like,  

"Things will just work out".

You either make an effort or your relationship will become a routine and you don't want that.

To spice things up, here are 5 ways to tell your man that you love him.


1. Take time every once in a while to make his favourite meal 
It may not be possible for you to make dinner every single day but over the weekend you can surely make time to prepare a proper meal. The effort and commitment will say it all. Then you can prove if what they say is true, 

"The way to a man's heart is through the stomach". 

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2. Engage him in a conversation rather than a debate
After a long day at work, everyone looks forward to some peaceful time at home. He may not have done what you requested from him but when he comes home engage him in small talk. 

Assess the mood and unleash your queries at a more appropriate time when you are likely to get satisfactory answers.


You can also check out this article, 5 Steps to Confront Him When He Comes Home Drunk,  in case he comes home drunk.

3. Unplug
Technology has encroached on our personal lives that our cellphones and other gadgets are always with us. Get one weekend or evening to unplug and avoid technology. Instead, pay attention to each other and have actually conversation without being distracted by work emails, Facebook or whats-app. 

4. Pay attention and be on top of things
Men want to be in charge and at the top of things at home. They look into the future and want to give their family the best. What will make a man feel like a king, is a woman who understands his plans and helps him out do himself. 

If you are attentive to what he is doing, you are likely to add some spice into it which, will definitely challenge him.  Deep inside, he will know that you appreciate his efforts.

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5. Forgive and forget 
Women are known to hold grudges for years and they are good at using your mistake against you. 

Nobody is perfect and even those you love will hurt. The only way to be happy is to forgive and forget. It may be hard to forget but holding a grudge is not simple either. 

Let it go and you, together with your husband will be free.

Now it is up to you to bring back the spark in your love. 

PS. For the men, you are not off the hook. You to also need to show affection to the ladies and I will giving you a few pointers in my next article. 

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2 comments:

  1. Had to re -read ,, I now know she is in love, wait, she could be having self motivations..

    A good one Tabitha

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    1. Thanks. Look out for the next article where I will share how you can say you love her without using words.

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