Saturday 1 October 2016

6 Things to Look For When Searching for Mr. Right


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It’s about time we get this issue cleared out. Are there Mr. Rights anywhere on this earth? Oh yes, there are. 

As a matter of fact, my thinking is, the idea of a Mr. Right is built, destroyed, and rebuilt in your head.

In my own opinion, these are the traits that form a Mr. Right:

1.    He is not perfect.
It’s about time you stopped looking for a perfect person because, in essence, nobody is perfect. You are not perfect yourself, so why would you want to stress out someone perfect, if there happened to be any.

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You should check out this article on  How to Have Successful Relationships for more pointers. 

      2.    It is not about the physical.
Of course, there are eligible handsome men out there. However, if that is all that you are looking for, I am sorry to disappoint you but you are in for a lot of drama and disappointments.

      3.    He is a friend.
You have heard and I will tell you again, best relationships are drawn from a well of friendship, not pleasures and empty gifts. So look for a friend first.

Don't forget to check out the article: Rolling The Dice When ‘In Love With Two

4.    He is a role model.

Ladies, men are not the enemy especially when you are building a career. I am sure by now you have heard the phrase, what a man can do, you can do better. 

A better version of the same that I like sharing is, what you think you can do, then you can learn and do it excellently.

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With the right focus and knowledge, all things are possible. You need someone who will remind you of that.

    5.    He builds a team.
A team is you and him. Proper communication works magic. You should be comfortable discussing issues and drawing conclusions together.

      6.    He is who your heart accepts.
After all, is said and done, if your heart is not in the relationship, do not waste each other's time. 

Your heart may accept a guy who is a work-at-home kind of man, another may accept a corporate kind of man, and another an art oriented kind of guy. 

The bottom line is, my perfect guy is not yours and yours is not mine. 

You decide who you want, and the heart decides who to accept, despite how he looks or what your friends say.

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2 comments:

  1. true, the hear wants what it wants. problem is, it ,might actually be stuck on the wrong person and unable to let go when you need it to so the most. In such a case, is it good to disregard the heart or just accept that you have won the battle but lost the war

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    1. Love is never one sided so when it becomes one sided then there goes your red flag

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