Are Women Their Own Enemies?

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Women are their own worst enemies. I have heard this saying several times in my life but never got to really think deeply about it. 

Probably the women in her life behaved like her enemies or the things they said to her and about her hurt her a lot. But as I go I see and have experienced a lot of life situations that portray this statement to be very true. women's

I believe in women power

and equal opportunities. This can only be possible if we as women were our sisters’ keepers always (this means being bold enough to reprimand them when they are doing wrong)  

Women are not honest most time. I have come across a woman who is almost naked in the way she is dressed with a group of her friends and they all seem okay. In fact, they compliment them on how smart she is.  A friend could be in an abusive relationship and you find that most of her friends encourage her to stick there because it is for better and for worse then go about gossiping and backbiting her at the same time.

Marriage/relationships Counselors’. There is a time for everything. We all have different priorities and approaches to life. Our society expects by the time a woman gets to 25 years she should be settled down with kids or seriously thinking of settling. When you visit the village chances of you not having fun are very high because every, aunt, grandmother, or female relative you interact with is nagging you about your age,, getting married, and having babies. ( Haalo we are in the 21^st century).

In the case that you are a woman, the same women will start questioning your fertility if you don’t give birth exactly 9 months after the wedding and some even go to the extent of suggesting t your husband to marry a real woman since you have fallen short of their expectations of you.

Sometimes women can be so evil.  a few months ago a there was this debate about ‘sponsors’ on a local radio station. Woman calls in and she was so bold as she justified her reasons for having an affair with a married man. She blamed the other woman saying it was her fault  ‘if you can’t keep your ma someone we are here to do it for you’ And she had absolutely no regrets about it, if given a chance she would do it over and over until her sisters knew how to keep their men. I believe this lady has girlfriends (I’m not judging) and they know and some of them have cheered her on to milk the man dry. 

In other scenarios you will find women insulting each other and fighting bitterly, attacking each other verbally. The reason is they found out they are sharing the same man. It’s not important who was first but the fact that the man got into a second relationship without ending it with you.

You will never see women fight over a good man. A good man would never even put you in a situation of not knowing where you stand.  So the fact that you are two means he isn’t worth either of you.  

You are in a relationship or married to a man who has a child from a previous relationship or marriage. You are busy mistreating and hating those children with a passion just because they are another woman’s children. You overwork them and take them to poor schools even where there is money that can afford a good education for them in a private school. How you treat that child ensures that you have a master's degree in being the best evil stepmother.

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