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Opening ourselves to love may require opening our minds to new experiences and opportunities. online dating just might be your ticket to happily ever after.
Alright, so now you are all set with a shiny dating profile that's garnered lots of hits from potential soulmates. You have windowed through the pool and chosen your potential catch.
It's time to link up, the date and time are set up. You are all geared up, excited, and anxious about what you are going to see.
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Remember you are meeting up with a stranger and it would be important for one to be cautious and take the same measures. I have read and asked a few people who have ever tried finding love online.
Here are a few tips on what not to do when going, during, and after the first date;
Here are a few tips on what not to do when going, during, and after the first date;
1. Do not Be quick to meet up.
Get to know each other. Chat for some time if possible months before you suggest meeting face-to-face. This will help each of you to familiarize yourself with one another, and break the ice and it will also make it easier for you to connect on your first real date.
2. Do Not Agree to go to a guy or lady's Home.
When dating online you have no real idea whether is trustworthy. You aren't sure if all the information he/she gave about themselves was true or it was completely honest. Going to their house not only increases the chances of danger but also increases the odds of something sexual happening. Even if both parties have fun, first-date sex comes with negative consequences.
3. Do Not Send indecent Pictures before the meeting
Personally, I would never advise sending indecent pictures at all whether you have or haven't met at all. While it is understandable that some people like to exchange sexy pictures with a significant other, DO NOT send photos to people whom you are just talking to online. The fact is you don't really know these people. They may immediately text your provocative selfie to a popular social media site and tag you along and that can turn out to be your worst nightmare when your future employer sees it on the big day of your job interview.
4. Do Not Be Late
It is incredibly annoying to wait around for hours for someone who's not punctual. Remember this is your first date and first impressions really matter a lot. If you're late please communicate before your date thinks you are not showing up, and leave before you get a chance to meet them.
5. Do Not Wear revealing clothes.
Leave some things to the imagination. Guys do not show up shirtless, even if you are meeting at the beach and it is very hot. Ladies, please don't let your cleavage hang out. Wearing an outfit that shows too much skin will make a male or female date think that you're just a piece of meat and people tend to get bored with one piece of meat pretty quickly.
6. Do Not bombard your date with messages and calls afterward.
It is nice to thank your date for a good time and inform them of your safe arrival home, don't blow up their phones or inbox with frequent messages. If you are constantly trying to talk to them, they may tire off you and may even start to see you as the clingy or nagging type which is one personality trait that can cause a budding relationship to hit a dead end.
Make sure you enjoy your time together during the date not all of it will be that bad. Ignore the little disappointments and just have fun together.
Have you tried Online dating? What are your stories, thoughts, and experiences...
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