7 Things You Should Avoid as You Wait For 'Prince Charming'

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There things you can do as you wait for a proper spouse. You can check out the article, 5 Things You Must do as You wait For 'Prince Charming'. There are also routines you are not allowed to do during that waiting part of your life. 

 

    1.    Tagging yourself along for your friend’s date with her guy

As crazy as it sounds I know there are people who do this. Your friend may invite for an outing she is going with her guy and she may do so with very good intentions but try as much as you can to avoid joining in. It can either make you feel like a third wheel or trigger desperate feelings to have your own.

  

2.    Getting too close to your friend’s guy 

It’s not wrong to be friends with your friends’ boyfriends but do not overdo it. It may look harmless but trust me, you are the available one and he is the one who just chose your friend. You may be tempted to compare yourself in the process with your friend and even embarrass yourself by asking him intimate questions.

3.    Excess watching of romantic movies

This is one area where many ladies become a victim. You want a Cinderella story and you keep watching them. There are happy endings I believe but, whatever you feed your head with matters. You are very vulnerable and doing this may increase your vulnerability.

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     4.    Excess listening of love songs

Effects here are quite similar to the previous point. The only distinction comes when some of these songs are of people singing out of a broken heart. Once again you will get moody and desperate. Maybe even cause self-esteem issues.

      5.    Isolating yourself

It’s healthy to have some alone time. In fact, take yourself out sometime and treat yourself the way you would want someone else to treat you. The problem comes when you want to always be alone. It will again get your moods down because you will always feel alone. 

6.    Talking too much about your singleness

We all know you are single my dear. You do not need to keep reminding us. The less you talk about, the less it gets to your head. It is okay to admit you are single and to be satisfied with your position, just don’t make it a big deal.

 7. Looking for your ex

He left once, what makes you think he will not leave again. Unless he comes looking for you and you are led by your heart to understand what happened in the past was somehow a mistake and you guys are able to live past that. 

Otherwise, especially if he is the one who called it off just save yourself the trouble.

Being single is not a death sentence. Take it positively. It’s just a time to build yourself and find a way of a broken heart being rebuilt if you are from a breakup. Take it easy. 

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