Ways to Co-Parent With Your Ex

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Some relationships are meant to last while others must come to an end leaving one with memories, lesson,s and at times consequences. some of these relationships end but already there is a child involved and that means no matter how bitter or angry we are that child should never pay for your mistakes (if ever that relationship was a mistake ). 

You may want nothing to do with each other but the child is very much in-love with and needs the both of you so that means you have to see each other often and pretend to like each other. Some people especially women tend to be very mean with the children. 

It is wise to understand that your child needs the both of you as they grow through the teenage stage to adults. I wants to share a few tips that could be very helpful to couples in such situations.

1.Value your influence - If you are a positive influence to your child then you are never going to be worried that the time they spend with the other parent is going to change their feelings towards you. Ensure that you always tell them the truth.

2. Let go of control - Sometimes we tend to cling too much to our children that we don't even want them interacting with extended family. We want to control their every move and word which is sad and at times pathetic. Trust the child enough to know they will make wise decisions in all circumstances. once there is trust children will always consult. 

3. Look through your Child's eyes - Your child is a product of the love you once felt for each other and it is key that she/he experiences the same love from the both of you. this will help in the having a stable upbringing despite her parents not living together. 

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4. Don't be a hater - Please Please do not let meanness and bitterness make you poison the child against the other parent or even family. You will create alot of confusion in their mind. Let them explore both worlds. when a child is mistreated at a place they tend never to want to go back. Love your child enough to sow love in their heart.