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If you read
articles as often as I do, love can start to feel like a formula. You can read
thousands of pieces of advice on how to attract the opposite sex, turn a
friendship into a relationship, or even how to go on more dates in 2018.
You don’t need to read more than “show him/her you’re interested, but not too interested” or “pose like this in a dating profile to get him/her to notice you” all these are just articles that make one think they can orchestrate their circumstances so that someone can fall in love with them.
You don’t need to read more than “show him/her you’re interested, but not too interested” or “pose like this in a dating profile to get him/her to notice you” all these are just articles that make one think they can orchestrate their circumstances so that someone can fall in love with them.
People who
are unprepared get married all the time. If you are single, you may never admit
this, but you probably look out at the latest crop of people falling in love
and getting married and think.“ I’m
better at many things than them, I’m more responsible. I’m more emotionally
healthy. I’m taking my time.” And you are probably right! You are all of those
things. You are more prepared. The truth is the preparation theory falls flat
because love isn’t about preparation. Preparation might make you qualified, but
it doesn’t make you loved.
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| Courtesy:lovematters.com |
The main difference
between me and a girl who is deeply in love is that the girl in love found her
guy. And if she is a Christian, she probably believes that God had something to
do with it.
She isn’t perfect, but love was awakened in her when the time was right. And she met someone who chose to embrace her strengths and her weaknesses. To her specific baggage. To her specific quirks, passions, and physical features.
She isn’t perfect, but love was awakened in her when the time was right. And she met someone who chose to embrace her strengths and her weaknesses. To her specific baggage. To her specific quirks, passions, and physical features.
The person you
are going to fall in love with isn’t going to be worried that you are too fat,
tall, and skinny or be intimidated because you have a master’s degree. Why?
Because that’s not how love works. That is not how God set up love. It’s not a matter of controlling circumstances or creating the perfect atmosphere for love. That’s
how preparation works but not Love.
Love shows
up in all the imperfect parts of our lives. Ready or not, Love arrives in the
unexpected, the unprepared. When love shows up in your life, it won’t have any explanation
to give. It will show up because it’s Love. Love just loves it can’t tell
time and believe me it doesn’t always make sense………
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