Top 5 Reasons Why Kenyan Men cannot Take Rejection

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For days I have been debating with myself whether or not I should write this article and the debate was not very effective.

However, the story of the Kenyatta University graduate who was murdered by his jilted lover which has been discussed exhaustively on radio, TV and Social Media got me to my breaking point.

Four Rules of Motherhood that Nobody Talks About

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They say there is no greater joy in life than becoming a mother. I don't know how you feel about it.  Motherhood is such a wonderful gift that nobody is able to fully express their emotion. I hold this school of thought that, children bring a new character and dimension into our lives not just joy.

Motherhood is most of the time self-taught. No matter how many parenting classes you attend, you will never learn anything. Besides, we all want to bring up our children differently than everybody else.

That Moment When You Find out Your Dad is not Your Father Part 1

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Dear Marcella, it is my prayer and hope that this success card finds you well. If you are reading then it means you are alive and healthy. I am sending this success card to introduce myself to you as your biological father.

The beautiful success card fell from my hands as I gasped out of shock. ‘My biological father!..... but I do have a biological father at home. What kind of a prank was this? The remaining part of my day was confused with a lot of questions. I re-read the letter almost 100 times without really understanding anything. 

7 Things You Should Avoid as You Wait For 'Prince Charming'

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There things you can do as you wait for a proper spouse. You can check out the article, 5 Things You Must do as You wait For 'Prince Charming'. There are also routines you are not allowed to do during that waiting part of your life. 

 

    1.    Tagging yourself along for your friend’s date with her guy

As crazy as it sounds I know there are people who do this. Your friend may invite for an outing she is going with her guy and she may do so with very good intentions but try as much as you can to avoid joining in. It can either make you feel like a third wheel or trigger desperate feelings to have your own.

7 Top Reasons Why He is Better than You

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Why is he better than me? 

What does he have that I don't? 

What did you see in him?

Clearly, these are questions that you will probably ask if you find yourself dumped and your ex-girlfriend moves on faster than you anticipated.

If this is the case, let me save you the heartache and give you a clue of why she moved on without blinking.

5 Easy ways for Dads to Bond with their Kids

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With the fathers' day talk last month, so many issues came up. It got me thinking, about how very many Dads have a difficult time bonding with their kids. There is that one familiar story of how when a Dad enters the house all the kids go to their rooms.

Today, I have some tips on how you can turn things around and be a cool Dad. One that has a real conversation with their kids.

5 Things You Must Do as You Wait for ‘Prince Charming’

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Crazy how everyone has a 5 or 10 years plan of their life. You know, by this time I should have done this and that. Maybe gotten a job, married, started a family, built a house, bought a vehicle bla bla bla. The truth of the matter is, the 5 or 10 years never go as fast as we would want them to go.

When it comes to relationships and waiting for 'THE ONE' the drill is the same. The question is, what if he doesn’t come tomorrow, or the next day?